Thursday, March 02, 2006
Mrs. Chips Delivers
Mrs. Chips visited Peanut's orphanage today. 10 of the 13 kids that came here last summer were there. They were confused -- wondering why she hadn't visited and why they stopped hearing from their American families. Mrs. Chips explained that we had been told they were all gone.

The kids told her that their orphanage director had a meeting with them and told them that they wouldn't be able to come to America because the Russian president didn't want any more international adoptions. Mrs. Chips told our kids that this was untrue. While I'm not surprised that our children have been lied to by their orphanage director, I'm still confused by it and so, so upset. I know the orphanage director cares about the children very much. She has proven that. But to lie to them and hurt them in a misguided attempt to protect them is beyond all reasoning. She is wrong. There are no other words for it. She is wrong.

The children were glad to receive the letters from us, and Mrs. Chips had them write letters in return. The kids still want to come to America. Against all odds and in spite of everything they have heard, our kids still love us. It's a testament to the power and strength of a family's love.

Three of our kids were not in the orphanage. One has returned to his birthmother whose rights were reinstated. Two are together in a patr*nat family. Peanut is one of those two. So, my boy didn't receive my note today. My hope is that Peanut still -- against all odds and in spite of everything he's heard -- believes in me. We are family. Our love was strong. I know that I feel it every minute of every day. I hope that he does, too.

Mrs. Chips is going to try to get permission to contact Peanut and the other boy who are with another family. I'm praying that she will be able to get permission to do so soon.

In the meantime, I'm thanking God for Mrs. Chips. I'm anxious to hear what the other 10 kids have to say. And I'm so happy for my fellow host parents that were able to get word and truth to their children today.
5 Comments:
Blogger Rhonda said...
Oh Margaret, I am praying that Mrs. Chips will get ahold of Peanut and you can hear something back. That would be a relief to you, I'm sure. YAY for Mrs. Chips.

Blogger M3 said...
Wow, that Mrs Chips is a lifesaver! I hope she can get word to Peanut.

Blogger Elle said...
I waited all day yesterday to find out if Mrs. Chips came through. I am so happy to hear that she did. That is not right what the director told those children.

I am praying everyday that she will find Peanut so the two of you can be reunited.

Blogger Jennefer said...
I am so glad that Mrs. Chips was able to tell the children what was really going on. How awful for them to be told differently! It is so frustrating! I hope Mrs. Chips gets through to Peanut. Let us know of any news.

Blogger A Room to Grow said...
I'm glad that you received some news on Peanut. I hope your message gets through so you know that Peanut knows how you feel and what is going on. This whole situation makes me sad - these kids have wonderful homes to go to and the system is letting them down.